People in Life

Some people come suddenly into our life with no reason,

Some leave in the middle when we need them the most,

Some stay with us even though we don’t want them to,

Some come at right time ,when we need help,

Some learn from  us,some teach us lessons,some hurt us,some love us,some get loved,some care us,some forgive us,some get forgived,some get cared,

Whatever the reason it might be some people always stay at a special place in our life,no matter what they do,it might be wrong or right,

We admire some and adore some, we inspire some and get inspired,

Some love us,care for us, but they remain as friends,well wishers and caretakers,

Some will just meet once and become as partner for life,

Some are really close to us but expects privacy and some are just friends with no secrets and regrets,

Some people are fake and some are genuine ,some are honest and some are loyal,some are kind and some are some are rude,some acts and some reacts,

Some stay forever and some will come back never,

Whoever leaves and whoever comes the only person to stay with you forever and the only person who loves ,cares and can makeyou ultimately happy is yourself. 

 

 

 

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First post of 2017

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This is the first post of this year and everyone should have great year ahead! I don’t have the habit of writing resolutions,goals at the starting of the year. But this year i wanna start something new so that it could be a better year than last one.

So here are the things which i learnt from 2016:

🔳 Never trust someone too much,no matter how sweet they speak.

🔳 Don’t expect too much from life and from any person even,because expectations always hurts!

🔳 How much you crave for the thing to happen also it won’t ,untill and unless you get the right time,right place and with the right person only. So don’t crave or don’t just jump into the things to happen fast and don’t do things in haste because “haste makes waste”!

🔳 Don’t expect people to stay with you forever,life is a journey and some stays and some leaves when they reach their destination.

🔳 Never do things without a proper clarity and without clarity don’t promise anything to anyone ,which might lead to problems later.

🔳 Never hurt people fast,if once it’s done ,we can’t repay for it or we can’t change things.

🔳 Never be dependent on anything or anyone.

🔳 Time is precious and spend it wisely.Time once wasted can’t be returned!

🔳 Being positive and overconfident all the time gives you negative results sometimes.Sometimes it’s better to think in both the ways!

Things that made me happy in 2016:

🔳 First thing is blogging ,this really makes me happy .I can write anything here and i met many wonderful people here and got good friends through blogging.
🔳 Pierced nosering.
🔳 Visited araku for two times.
🔳 Had wonderful time with my  lovable friends.
🔳  Got to know what I’m,the real me.
🔳  Making art as an obsession.
🔳 Got a clear idea of what I really need and where i want to be.
🔳 Became more stronger to face more shit in life!
🔳 Joined gym to refresh my mind.

Things i wanna do in 2017:

🔳 Pierce a tattoo.
🔳 Concentrate more on career.
🔳 Reduce weight.
🔳 Visit few places with friends.
🔳 Learn to cook delicious recipes.
🔳 Not to hurt people easily.
🔳 Forgive easily.
🔳 Speak carefully.
🔳 Love myself more.
🔳 Stop eating too much sugary things.
🔳 Love my family more.
🔳 Be more matured and independent.
🔳 Stop acting crazy and childish.
🔳 Stop worrying too much about life and problems.
🔳 Be happy all the time in any tyoe of situation.
🔳 Take care of my health more.
🔳 Visit more orphanages and help more people who are in need.
🔳 Spend time ideally and wisely.
🔳 Plan the things and write them down,no matter how little they are.
🔳 Stop biting nails.

I don’t know whether i’m gonna follow each and everything in this list,but few things for sure.Expecting this year to be blissful ahead!

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Last post of 2016

This is my lasy post of 2016 …

I have learnt a lot this year and i achieved few things and blogging is one of them, because i had the idea of blogging but never started ,so this year i did that and I’m successful in that.I am quite happy with that. I have lost few things this year and it really gave me absolute pain,but i don’t want to worry about it because it’s life after all and pain,sorrow, happiness are part of it and it will turn better someday!

Every year i have the habit of welcoming new year with all the smiles and with great joy,but inspite of welcoming in a warm way ,it gives me shit all the time asusual..never bothered.So through this journey i came to know that new years come and go ,the only has to change is our life.


So the most suced up year of my life.. enough of hell with you and I’m raising my collar and telling you that , I’m again ready for the battle for next year in life,because you know i have all the patience😏.Let me see to which extent this year can suck!
Not everyone’s life will be same,so wishing my friends out there ,you all should have the brightful year ahead and you all should have beautiful smiles on your face! People who already lost so much this year and even if previous year suc
ed up like mine,never worry ,we have many more years,and we will even get a chance to dance… So just smile and welcome new year.let’s hope for the blissful year ahead😊

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Me&Myself!

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I love myself because I won’t ditch and leave me alone anytime.
I worship myself because I’m the one who stands by myself and helps me to face the stuff.
I admire myself because I’m me always and I never act as fake.
I care for myself because I’m the one whom I can to share everything with.
I trust myself because I never let myself down and never let all my secrets out.
I pamper myself because I’m the one who helps me out to come out of the moody situation.
I have faith in me because I’ll always do good for myself.
I believe in me because I never judge myself,
I can be as myself because I’m happy with me and I don’t need someone to make myself happy!
I’m not a narcissist, but I love myself more than anyone do!

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What is Life? 

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What is Life?Why is life so complicated?Why it’s so confusing? I think no one can answer these questions exactly. Sometimes it seems to be a mirage and sometimes it seems to be like just a black image.Why?why?why? Well! I’m in my mid 20’s and still searching for the thing!I really don’t know what is the thing with life.It gives happiness in an hour and the same times it gives pain in the next hour!I wonder how and why things happen like this!

Sometimes it gives fruitful sleep and sometimes it gives horribles dreams… does it happens only to me or even everyone feels the same?am i the only one who thinks like that?When I try to be calm it pinches me when I turn to fight with my own life, it calms down and bows to me!what the hell is even this?

I smiled at my odds, took everything as a positive one, but still everytime same thing repeats! Why like this? When it gave me lemons, I made lemonade and at the same time when it gave me dilemma I made a dillemmanade! It showed me peaks of happiness and the peaks of shit even..yet, I really don’t know what is the real meaning of so-called Life!

Sometimes it makes us get closer to people, when we get closer, it will take its part and separate us from those people! Sometimes it makes us be with the people whom we really don’t like!it makes to feel excited, sometimes vulnerable, sometimes happy, and sometimes weak, sometimes it makes us grow and sometimes it throws us beneath the earth.

We protest at things and accept few things.We will not really be happy with acceptance or protesting things, but life goes on..I know what makes me happy, but those things can’t happen! At last, after all, I understood only one thing, Life is a battlefield, you have to sacrifice your everything and fight your best to get what you want!

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Decieved&Dead!

Every second is like an era of pain which passes through every vein,

I was unaware of this nightmare,

Like the bird that flies high in the sky, you went out with a relief of sigh,

Seeing you flying, made me collapsed there and remained crying,

I waited for so long by anticipating you to come along,

With all the feeling of deserted and exasperated, I returned exhausted!

I explored the steps to reach the heights you live in, but failed because those are unapproachable to reach in,

Though they seem to belong way, I tried to climb with all my intensity to reach you,

My eyes glittered to see you and my heart skipped a beat, in reaching you with the descending steps of every foot,

You have transformed and tossed me down,

I cried till my throat became empty and my eyes became fluffy,

A voice from inside, laughed because of me being so naive,

Being decieved&unvalued, my body drowned in the shore and my soul which is the replica of sacred love died to the core!!

This is written in response to Tanya’s Poetry Challenge #3

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Choatic Thoughts

Well!I have a friend who once was betrayed, trenched deep by her love! She was deeply hurt and mentally disturbed! I didn’t enclose her situation to her family because ,i couldn’t imagine how they will take this. We both used to stay together in a single room and i used to be beside her and motivated her to be brave and strong. She was one of the strongest and brave girls i have seen,but her braveness got faded gradually. She once thought of committing suicide in my absence,but somehow she failed and survived!

This was happened four years ago and now she is a successful software engineer, a passionate wife and mother of a kiddo! Suicide and losing is not her thing ,but it was her state of mind in which she was.Her mind was in choatic state and filled with evil thoughts.Pessimist in her made her to go till that stage! She then later understood what she really needs and what is the main thing of life and concentrated on her career. She has grown gradually and now she is a successful person.

She was choatic; life seemed to be mess, she loved herself and loved her life and grown each day as an adventure. My advice to everyone after seeing her life is to be bold and strong at the worst path even.Never take instant and evil decisions when you are in a confused state because who knows there might be a beautiful life wrirten for you!

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My Second Blog!

I’m quite happy to say that i’m following my heart through Blogging and Drawing!I have started another blog to display my arts and the arts which i collect from Art blogs , Facebook and  Instagram.Thanks for the followers who supported my writings on this site and kindly support my art site too by visiting. Your comments means a lot to me and anticipating affirmative response from everyone!Thanks in advance…

This is the site’s Link and click on that to view more..

https://sashaartsworld.wordpress.com 
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Black bag!

I really don’t know how many women will like this post and some might judge me even,but i don’t give a f**k!.So today i went to a general grocery shop which is not so big , but enough to buy groceries,so i asked the shopkeeper for sanitary napkins(which means pads in general use).  A middle aged woman who was standing beside me felt shy and started to seeing away as if she is unaware if the menstrual cycle and period!I gave an irritated  and dirty look to her.So this shopkeeper wrapped the packet in the newspaper and said “there is no black colour carry bag,is it okay if i give in transparent carry bag”. I was little bit irritated and surprised by his question and said “Bhayya!there is nothing to hide it,it is the same way as the men use shaving cream ,we use sanitary napkins, everyone are aware of everything and no need of wrapping in newspaper even, just give it in transparent carry bag”.  I sensed the surprise on shopkeeper’s face and he gave me the carry bag!

This wont happens only with him and only here,but i have seen even girls feeling shy to ask for sanitary napkins, I’m really not aware of the reason why? Is it something to be hidden? Or is it something bad? it’s part of human body and biological thing that happens with every girl!if it’s really bad and if it’s a mistake to speak about the women’s period , then why many companies elicit about this and advertise? This is really not to hurt someone ,but i just want to educate or explain or whatever people think. Sanitary napkins are just part in our groceries list of every month. Even this post is for men to support their female ones that period is not wrong and one shouldn’t feel shy to ask for a sanitary napkin!

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