Follow Your Bliss

Are you the one who really follows your passion? Do you think you are doing the right job?

Considering the general world, there are two types of people as per career, the one who does the job for money and career growth and the other one who does for passion! Passion doesn’t mean that one is really interested or obsessed with a particular thing; it’s all about serious emotion involved and the desire to know or excel in that field completely.

How many of you have followed the dream and achieved that goal which you might have passionately announced in front of the whole class when you were in 5th standard? No wonder, we can count the number on fingers.

At the young age, when we doesn’t know the real world completely, we wish to be engineers, doctors, writer, actor, singer, painter, artist, chef, police and many more; but when we grow with the times and when we face the reality, only a few try hard and achieve goals whereas some blindly go or follow what the society does or say! These days finding a degree a fetching a job is not a hard thing, but finding the right one which you love and which gives you immense joy to work is important. At the end of the day when you close your eyes, one should feel the satisfied mind and heart that drives to peaceful sleep rather than painful stress about tomorrow’s work!

Most of the people advice “follow your dreams”, “find your passion”, “do what you love”, but it’s us who should know what we really love. Don’t get a job in something which you don’t like because are in the late twenties or because all of your friends are earning. You might not know, the person who earns more might not have a peaceful day.  They might have an idea how much they can earn after a couple of years, but they won’t have an idea, where they are actually lying and what is their dream job!

Getting a job doesn’t mean going to office regularly and striving hard to get results. It could be a part-time or non-office job which you love, whatever it might be, do it with passion. Being a passionate person will make you stand and do something different from others. Passion drives you motivated and engaged in the work you do and helps you to fetch astonishing results at the end of the day.

If one doesn’t know what their passion is, it is completely okay and there is no offense. You can know it by making a list of things which you love and earn money through them because at the end of the day money is all that matters to survive. There are people who are standing top in their passionate dream jobs.

Being in the right job doesn’t mean earning high; it all means the soul-satisfying job that intrigues each day to work. When we work for the money we involve the mind, but when we work with passion, we involve both mind and heart! If each day fascinates you to work or drives you crazy to work more, then you are on the right path at life and you have that dream job.

A post about the Woman!

Have you noticed a woman with tough attitude and strong enough to protect herself from this world? If you see such woman respect her and give a smile. Every woman has a past, some were physically abused, some grown up all alone, some had violent parents, some has issues with their own body, some has undergone sexual abuse from their own family and some were abused by others.

Some had messed up love stories, some were forced into sex in the name of love. Some had been date raped, some has been went through tough times , some has been photographed on bed, some had a bad boy friend, some has been blackmailed by her ex-boyfriend, some has menstrual problems, some had been in abusive relationship. Some had a broken family, some had a divorce, some has been cheated i the name of love. Some had financial issues, some had obesity issues, some had a few unsuccessful suicide attempts and some had alcohol addiction or drug addiction.

Some might have seen true love, some might had faced a abusive boyfriend, some might been beaten by a sadist husband, some might had been truly loved, some might been cheated in the name of it.

If you see a woman, who went through any of this, who has already gone through all this, tied her hair up, masked her sorrows into a divine smile, stood tall and strong, walked towards her bright future despite of what all shed once had and what all she have now, because she still has some hope left inside her and has not given up on the concept of true love does exists in this world, don’t poke her or stab her with her past.Don’t confront her, don’t abuse her more because she already had enough. Just give a way to her and smile at her, if possible just walk along with her. If you get a chance, hold her hand and you will get to know how sweet her soul is and how strong her hopes are! You will be amazed to see such a strong and tough woman who is still standing strong despite of all the energy has been sucked out.

She need not always be only the woman next door or from a different home. She could be your own sister, your own friend, your own girlfriend, your own wife and might be your own mother. Don’t judge her by her past,no matter what,  gift her a peaceful life she deserves,hold her hand against the world which knows only to judge, tap her back at her odds and see how beautiful she smiles and make you feel pride to have her!

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First Love!

First Love!! It happens to everyone and everyone has to go through that phase at some point in life. It’s the most beautiful phase of life and it either happens with the right person at wrong time or with the wrong person at the right time. You feel that you found someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you have never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more from them. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true and goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something good or something unexpected happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, you always know that they will share the equal excitement with you. You run to them in the first place, when you are in trouble.

It mostly happens at a quite young age where your body is already excited and ready with the rush of hormones to love someone. They give you butterflies in your stomach when you see them for the first time, the moment when you touch them, you feel the divine love. The wait to see them after a long day gives you joy and you feel that it is worth the wait, when they hold your hand. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. You see every day in a different way, where you have never seen in life. You feel so loved and warmth by them.

You are not embarrassed or cry with them or in front of them. You will act as a fool and make fun of yourself in front of them to make them laugh. You always dream living a happy life with them all the time. You fantasize and think about waking up next to them every day. You feel delighted in their company and the way they show how much you love them or how much you mean to them. They tell you how beautiful you are and how much they are feeling proud to be with you. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around.

Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you.

You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate that will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. 

You always remember their voice where you spoke to them for hours, remember their dislikes, likes, the places where you went together, music you have listened together, and everything about them.  You remember your first kiss, first touch and you remember all the first things you have done with them,no matter whether you be with them or not.expect and dream about living with them for the whole life and always wants to be with them, no matter what happens and what you get back!

Even when you are not pretty sure about being with them forever or even after breaking up with them, you always have a special place for them in your heart, which will never let that feel to go no matter what happens and how many persons come across your life, you will never forget your first love and nothing can replace the essence or memories you spent with them. People are really lucky whose first love is the one which lasts forever with them and who can feel the essence of it.

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Bad dream!

It was completely dark and she was in the middle of a huge and dense forest, where nothing can be seen clearly. She could sense that something is spooky and some bad senses were pulling her down.

Someone pulled her hair; she turned to see who it was but to her surprise there was no one, she stood there numb and tried to understand where she was! Someone pulled her hair again; she turned again, but couldn’t find anyone. Some strange fear passed down her body and felt cold at her spine. She got goose bumps as a sense of fear and tried to run.

She began to run to escape from the place, but something was chasing her, she wasn’t sure whether it was someone or something, all she could hear was only noise, heavy footsteps approaching her, but couldn’t see a person or nothing. Sweat was running through her body and her clothes became wet. She wants to scream her lungs out for help, but couldn’t! She tried hard, but not a word came out of her throat, she felt weak, creepy, struck, numb and helpless!

She started to run again for long distance, but she couldn’t find a path to escape, she suddenly felt that someone placed a hand on her shoulder, she was almost dead of that creepy thing and wondered who it might would be and the fear ran through her nerves and turned to see who it was. It was a big branch and leaves of a tree. She felt little relieved and sat down under the tree.

She felt thirsty, hungry and tired of running. Then she suddenly felt that someone were holding her  waist from back, pulling her down, she thought of moving her legs and getting up , but she couldn’t. All she could feel was numb, she wants to scream high, get rid of it, but couldn’t, she tried hard to move but got struck by something. She started to cry, but no voice was coming out. She tried hard to move away, but couldn’t. Fear passed down every nerve of her and thought that it might be the last day of her life; she cried all alone, feeling helpless and suddenly she got up from sleep with sweat running down her forehead and neck. She then realized that the thing which she experienced was a bad dream!!

 

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People in Life

Some people come suddenly into our life with no reason,

Some leave in the middle when we need them the most,

Some stay with us even though we don’t want them to,

Some come at right time ,when we need help,

Some learn from  us,some teach us lessons,some hurt us,some love us,some get loved,some care us,some forgive us,some get forgived,some get cared,

Whatever the reason it might be some people always stay at a special place in our life,no matter what they do,it might be wrong or right,

We admire some and adore some, we inspire some and get inspired,

Some love us,care for us, but they remain as friends,well wishers and caretakers,

Some will just meet once and become as partner for life,

Some are really close to us but expects privacy and some are just friends with no secrets and regrets,

Some people are fake and some are genuine ,some are honest and some are loyal,some are kind and some are some are rude,some acts and some reacts,

Some stay forever and some will come back never,

Whoever leaves and whoever comes the only person to stay with you forever and the only person who loves ,cares and can makeyou ultimately happy is yourself. 

 

 

 

First post of 2017

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This is the first post of this year and everyone should have great year ahead! I don’t have the habit of writing resolutions,goals at the starting of the year. But this year i wanna start something new so that it could be a better year than last one.

So here are the things which i learnt from 2016:

🔳 Never trust someone too much,no matter how sweet they speak.

🔳 Don’t expect too much from life and from any person even,because expectations always hurts!

🔳 How much you crave for the thing to happen also it won’t ,untill and unless you get the right time,right place and with the right person only. So don’t crave or don’t just jump into the things to happen fast and don’t do things in haste because “haste makes waste”!

🔳 Don’t expect people to stay with you forever,life is a journey and some stays and some leaves when they reach their destination.

🔳 Never do things without a proper clarity and without clarity don’t promise anything to anyone ,which might lead to problems later.

🔳 Never hurt people fast,if once it’s done ,we can’t repay for it or we can’t change things.

🔳 Never be dependent on anything or anyone.

🔳 Time is precious and spend it wisely.Time once wasted can’t be returned!

🔳 Being positive and overconfident all the time gives you negative results sometimes.Sometimes it’s better to think in both the ways!

Things that made me happy in 2016:

🔳 First thing is blogging ,this really makes me happy .I can write anything here and i met many wonderful people here and got good friends through blogging.
🔳 Pierced nosering.
🔳 Visited araku for two times.
🔳 Had wonderful time with my  lovable friends.
🔳  Got to know what I’m,the real me.
🔳  Making art as an obsession.
🔳 Got a clear idea of what I really need and where i want to be.
🔳 Became more stronger to face more shit in life!
🔳 Joined gym to refresh my mind.

Things i wanna do in 2017:

🔳 Pierce a tattoo.
🔳 Concentrate more on career.
🔳 Reduce weight.
🔳 Visit few places with friends.
🔳 Learn to cook delicious recipes.
🔳 Not to hurt people easily.
🔳 Forgive easily.
🔳 Speak carefully.
🔳 Love myself more.
🔳 Stop eating too much sugary things.
🔳 Love my family more.
🔳 Be more matured and independent.
🔳 Stop acting crazy and childish.
🔳 Stop worrying too much about life and problems.
🔳 Be happy all the time in any tyoe of situation.
🔳 Take care of my health more.
🔳 Visit more orphanages and help more people who are in need.
🔳 Spend time ideally and wisely.
🔳 Plan the things and write them down,no matter how little they are.
🔳 Stop biting nails.

I don’t know whether i’m gonna follow each and everything in this list,but few things for sure.Expecting this year to be blissful ahead!

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Last post of 2016

This is my lasy post of 2016 …

I have learnt a lot this year and i achieved few things and blogging is one of them, because i had the idea of blogging but never started ,so this year i did that and I’m successful in that.I am quite happy with that. I have lost few things this year and it really gave me absolute pain,but i don’t want to worry about it because it’s life after all and pain,sorrow, happiness are part of it and it will turn better someday!

Every year i have the habit of welcoming new year with all the smiles and with great joy,but inspite of welcoming in a warm way ,it gives me shit all the time asusual..never bothered.So through this journey i came to know that new years come and go ,the only has to change is our life.


So the most suced up year of my life.. enough of hell with you and I’m raising my collar and telling you that , I’m again ready for the battle for next year in life,because you know i have all the patience😏.Let me see to which extent this year can suck!
Not everyone’s life will be same,so wishing my friends out there ,you all should have the brightful year ahead and you all should have beautiful smiles on your face! People who already lost so much this year and even if previous year suc
ed up like mine,never worry ,we have many more years,and we will even get a chance to dance… So just smile and welcome new year.let’s hope for the blissful year ahead😊

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Short&Sweet!

I always get confused with a quote called“Life is short!” When life is short,why do everyone expect things to be forever?forever relationships,forever job,forever friends,everything they need to be forever! Some people like things to beshort&sweet, whereas some likes things to be long&forever.
As per my opinion when life is short,then even certain things shoud be short,but also sweet! First things are always sweet ,let it might be first gift from dad,first love,first kiss..whatever it might be those are always sweet,butsome people forget the sweetness in order to make those short things as long&forever. When we crave for long&forever relationship we can’t enjoy the essence in it at present.Not always short&sweet works ,but in certain things when life turns up and down you shouldn’t wait for the long and forever things,we should just accept the life as it comes and enjoy the little sweet things it furnish.

One cannot control or predict the destiny,so why to waste time by worrying about things to happen? when it’s meant for you,it will obviously come to you,no matter how many hurdles you cross in the path! So enjoy the little sweet things ,the real happiness is not searching and craving for large and long things which are no where around you ,it’s all about accepting the petty things which surrounds you and enjoying them!!

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Mind and Heart!

There will be always a contradiction between mind and heart!At some situations mind says something where heart opposes it.The battle between mind and heart will be like what i know vs what i feel!

Mind always says that i’m “fat”,the very first word when i look into mirror,but my mind comforts with a word called plump!

Mind always says that I’m fed up with things,but my heart comforts and says “baby!you are not fed up,but you are exhausted and you need to relax!” 

Mind always says that I’m amateur,but my heart comforts and says “no one is perfect dear,you are just learning things in life!”

Mind always says that life is so fu**ed up,but my heart always comforts saying “It’s all about life and happens to everyone on this earth!”

Mind always thinks practically whereas heart always thinks emotionally!

Mind knows truth whereas heart wants lies!

Mind is a great deceiver ,heart get fooled easily,

Mind says move on,heart says hold on!

Mind has no heart and heart has no brain,that’s why when we speak by mind,we seem heartless and when we do by heart,it seems thoughtless!

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Flying with colourful wings!

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Born as a bird,

Brought up in a nest,

Fantasized of flying with colourful wings,

Ditched by fate’s trip,

Went through rigid times,

Fallen down as a dried leaf!

Felt warmth by the wings that wrapped around me,

Felt as a queen and shared love,

Deceived by love and torn,

Left alone with shattered pieces of heart,

Learnt to live alone and fly on own,

Embraced by another love as a ray of light in a dark room,

Bloomed with hope and flied high,

Trusted and been intimated with the love,

Fantasized of being forever in each other’s arms,

Karma , been the bitch and seperated us,

Perished mentally, deceived,cried, loved,broken and left solely!

Fallen to the ground and sobbed silently,

Waited for the time to heal everything,

Gained all the strength,heaved my wings to glide along,

Failed first,teased by the life’s trick,fallen down all the time,

Tried and tired,

Congregated all the strength,tried again and again,

Gained all the courage and flying high in the sky to defeat my loneliness, my defeats, my fate, my scares, my shattered pieces of heart, my frails and my worries!

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