Follow Your Bliss

Are you the one who really follows your passion? Do you think you are doing the right job?

Considering the general world, there are two types of people as per career, the one who does the job for money and career growth and the other one who does for passion! Passion doesn’t mean that one is really interested or obsessed with a particular thing; it’s all about serious emotion involved and the desire to know or excel in that field completely.

How many of you have followed the dream and achieved that goal which you might have passionately announced in front of the whole class when you were in 5th standard? No wonder, we can count the number on fingers.

At the young age, when we don’t know the real world completely, we wish to be engineers, doctors, writer, actor, singer, painter, artist, chef, police and many more; but when we grow with the times and when we face the reality, only a few try hard and achieve goals whereas some blindly go or follow what the society does or say! These days finding a degree a fetching a job is not a hard thing, but finding the right one which you love and which gives you immense joy to work is important. At the end of the day when you close your eyes, one should feel the satisfied mind and heart that drives to peaceful sleep rather than painful stress about tomorrow’s work!

Most of the people advice “follow your dreams”, “find your passion”, “do what you love”, but it’s us who should know what we really love.

Don’t get a job in something which you don’t like because are in the late twenties or because all of your friends are earning. You might not know, the person who earns more might not have a peaceful day.

They might have an idea how much they can earn after a couple of years, but they won’t have an idea, where they are actually lying and what is their dream job!

Getting a job doesn’t mean going to office regularly and striving hard to get results. It could be a part-time or non-office job which you love, whatever it might be, do it with passion. Being a passionate person will make you stand and do something different from others. Passion drives you motivated and engaged in the work you do and helps you to fetch astonishing results at the end of the day.

If one doesn’t know what their passion is, it is completely okay and there is no offense. You can know it by making a list of things which you love and earn money through them because at the end of the day money is all that matters to survive. There are people who are standing top in their passionate dream jobs.

Being in the right job doesn’t mean earning high; it all means the soul-satisfying job that intrigues each day to work. When we work for the money we involve the mind, but when we work with passion, we involve both mind and heart! If each day fascinates you to work or drives you crazy to work more, then you are on the right path at life and you have that dream job.-Sasha

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A post about the Woman!

Have you ever noticed a woman with tough attitude and strong enough to protect herself from this world? If you see such woman respect her and give a smile. Every woman has a past, some were physically abused, some grown up all alone, some had violent parents, some has issues with their own body, some has undergone sexual abuse from their own family and some were abused by others.

Some had messed up love stories, some were forced into sex in the name of love. Some had been date raped, some have been gone through tough times, some has been photographed on a bed, some had a bad boyfriend, some has been blackmailed by her ex-boyfriend, some has menstrual problems, some had been in abusive relationship. Some had a broken family, some had a divorce, some has been cheated in the name of love. Some had financial issues, some had obesity issues, some had a few unsuccessful suicide attempts and some had alcohol addiction or drug addiction.

Some might have seen true love, some might have faced an abusive boyfriend, some might be beaten by a callous husband, some might have been truly loved, some might be been cheated in the name of it.

If you see a woman, who went through any of this, who has already gone through all this, tied her hair up, masked her sorrows into a divine smile, stood tall and strong, walked towards her bright future despite of what all shed once had and what all she has now, because she still has some hope left inside her and has not given up on the concept of true love does exist in this world, don’t poke her or stab her with her past.Don’t confront her, don’t abuse her more because she already had enough. Just give a way to her and smile at her, if possible just walk along with her. If you get a chance, hold her hand and you will get to know how sweet her soul is and how strong her hopes are! You will be amazed to see such a strong and tough woman who is still standing strong despite all the energy has been sucked out.

She need not always be only the woman next door or from a different home. She could be your own sister, your own friend, your own girlfriend, your own wife and might be your own mother. Don’t judge her by her past, no matter what,  gift her a peaceful life she deserves, holds her hand against the world which knows only to judge, tap her back at her odds and see how beautiful she smiles and make you feel the pride to have her!

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First Love!

First Love!! It happens to everyone and everyone has to go through that phase at some point in life. It’s the most beautiful phase of life and it either happens with the right person at a wrong time or with the wrong person at the right time. You feel that you found someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you have never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more from them. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true and goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something good or something unexpected happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, you always know that they will share the equal excitement with you. You run to them in the first place, when you are in trouble.

It mostly happens at a quite young age where your body is already excited and ready with the rush of hormones to love someone. They give you butterflies in your stomach when you see them for the first time, the moment when you touch them, you feel the divine love. The wait to see them after a long day gives you joy and you feel that it is worth the wait, when they hold your hand. Colors seem brighter and more glorious. You see every day in a different way, where you have never seen in life. You feel so loved and warmth by them.

You are not embarrassed or cry with them or in front of them. You will act as a fool and make fun of yourself in front of them to make them laugh. You always dream living a happy life with them all the time. You fantasize and think about waking up next to them every day. You feel delighted in their company and the way they show how much you love them or how much you mean to them. They tell you how beautiful you are and how much they are feeling proud to be with you. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around.

Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you.

You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate that will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. 

You always cherish their voice where you spoke to them for hours, remember their dislikes, likes, the places where you went together, music you have listened together, and everything about them.  You remember your first kiss, first touch and you remember all the first things you have done with them, no matter whether you live with them forever or not, expect and dream about living with them for the whole life and always wants to be with them, no matter what happens and what you get back!

Even when you are not pretty sure about being with them forever or even after breaking up with them, you always carve a special place for them in your heart, which will never let that feel to go no matter what happens and how many persons pass across your life, you will never forget your first love and nothing can replace the essence or memories you spent with them. People are really lucky whose first love is the one which lasts forever with them and who can feel the essence of it.

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Bad dream!

It was completely dark and she was in the midst of a huge and dense forest, where nothing can be seen clearly. She could sense that something is spooky and some bad senses were pulling her down.

Someone pulled her hair; she turned to see who it was but to her surprise there was no one, she stood there numb and tried to understand where she was! Someone pulled her hair again; she turned again, but couldn’t find anyone. Some strange fear passed down her body and felt cold at her spine. She got goose-bumps as a sensation of fear and tried to run.

She began to run to escape from the place, but something was chasing her, she wasn’t sure whether it was someone or something, all she could hear was only noise, heavy footsteps approaching her, but couldn’t see a person or nothing. Sweat was running through her body and her clothes became wet. She wants to scream her lungs out for help, but couldn’t! She tried hard, but not a word came out of her throat, she felt weak, creepy, struck, numb and helpless!

She started to run again for long distance, but she couldn’t find a path to escape, she suddenly felt that someone placed a hand on her shoulder, she was almost dead of that creepy thing and wondered who it might would be and the fear ran through her nerves and turned to see who it was. It was a big branch and leaves of a tree. She felt a little relieved and sat down under the tree.

She felt thirsty, hungry and tired of running. Then she suddenly felt that someone was holding her waist from the back, pulling her down, she thought of moving her legs and getting up, but she couldn’t. All she could feel was paralyzed, she wants to scream high, get rid of it, but couldn’t, she tried hard to move but got struck by something. She started to cry, but no voice came out. She tried hard to move away, but couldn’t. Fear passed down every nerve of her and thought that it might be the last day of her life; she cried all alone, feeling helpless and suddenly she got up from sleep with sweat running down her forehead and neck. She then realized that the thing which she experienced was a bad dream!!

 

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People in Life

Some people come suddenly into our life with no reason,

Some leave in the middle when we need them the most,

Some stay with us even though we don’t want them to,

Some come at right time ,when we need help,

Some learn from  us,some teach us lessons,some hurt us,some love us,some get loved,some care us,some forgive us,some get forgived,some get cared,

Whatever the reason it might be some people always stay at a special place in our life,no matter what they do,it might be wrong or right,

We admire some and adore some, we inspire some and get inspired,

Some love us,care for us, but they remain as friends,well wishers and caretakers,

Some will just meet once and become as partner for life,

Some are really close to us but expects privacy and some are just friends with no secrets and regrets,

Some people are fake and some are genuine ,some are honest and some are loyal,some are kind and some are some are rude,some acts and some reacts,

Some stay forever and some will come back never,

Whoever leaves and whoever comes the only person to stay with you forever and the only person who loves ,cares and can makeyou ultimately happy is yourself. 

-Sasha