Real curves of woman!


Does beauty mean having a perfect shape? The word beautiful defines perfect curves, but curves mean having a perfect personality? According to me, having perfect curves means having the perfect curve of lips, a perfect smile to conquer the world. A smile is the most beautiful curve of a woman’s body! A woman’s beauty all depends upon how she carries herself and how she enhances her beauty which she has.

The word b.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l itself is curvy so why a woman shouldn’t be!? Every woman is beautiful in her own way, the only thing is about how others perceive.

A woman is beautiful when she tries to speak something or express something with her eyes, see the beautiful curve of her eyes…

A woman is beautiful when she smiles wholeheartedly, see the beautiful curve of her lips…

A woman is beautiful when she blushes and smiles naturally, see the beautiful curves of her cheeks…

A woman is beautiful when she cook something for you and when she feeds you with her own hands; see the beautiful curves of her hands…

A woman is beautiful when she comes to you by running, just to give you a hug after a tiresome day, see the beautiful curves of her feet…

A woman is beautiful when she forgives after all the shit you make, see the beautiful curves of her kind heart…

A woman is beautiful when she tries to advise or work for her family, in spite of her tiresome life and works equally to a man, see the beautiful curves of her mind…

A woman is beautiful when she shows her love to make you smile, see the beautiful curves of her loving heart…

A woman is beautiful when she loves you so much and surrenders herself to you while making love, see the beautiful curves of her naked soul!

Dear Men! “Just admire, adore, and compliment a woman as the way she is. She might be short, curvy, skinny, tall, it doesn’t matter. All that matters is her caring nature and loving heart! The true beauty of the woman is reflected in her soul!”

Dear fellow women! Remember that “Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief that she is beautiful!”



Last post of 2016

This is my lasy post of 2016 …

I have learnt a lot this year and i achieved few things and blogging is one of them, because i had the idea of blogging but never started ,so this year i did that and I’m successful in that.I am quite happy with that. I have lost few things this year and it really gave me absolute pain,but i don’t want to worry about it because it’s life after all and pain,sorrow, happiness are part of it and it will turn better someday!

Every year i have the habit of welcoming new year with all the smiles and with great joy,but inspite of welcoming in a warm way ,it gives me shit all the time asusual..never bothered.So through this journey i came to know that new years come and go ,the only has to change is our life.

So the most suced up year of my life.. enough of hell with you and I’m raising my collar and telling you that , I’m again ready for the battle for next year in life,because you know i have all the patience😏.Let me see to which extent this year can suck!
Not everyone’s life will be same,so wishing my friends out there ,you all should have the brightful year ahead and you all should have beautiful smiles on your face! People who already lost so much this year and even if previous year suc
ed up like mine,never worry ,we have many more years,and we will even get a chance to dance… So just smile and welcome new year.let’s hope for the blissful year ahead😊



I always get confused with a quote called“Life is short!” When life is short, why does everyone expect things to be forever??forever relationships, forever job, forever friends, everything they need to be forever! Some people like things to be short&sweet, whereas some likes things to be long&forever.
As per my opinion when life is short, then even certain things should be short, but also sweet! First things are always sweet, let it might be the first gift from dad, first love, first kiss..whatever it might be those are always sweet, but some people forget the sweetness in order to make those short things as long&forever. When we crave for the long&forever relationship we can’t enjoy the essence in it at present.Not always short&sweet works, but in certain things when life turns up and down you shouldn’t wait for the long and forever things, we should just accept the life as it comes and appreciate the little sweet things it furnishes.

One cannot control or predict the destiny, so why to waste time by worrying about things to happen? when it’s meant for you, it will obviously come to you, no matter how many hurdles you cross the path! So enjoy the little sweet things, the real happiness is not searching and craving for large and long things which are nowhere around you, it’s all about accepting the petty things which surround you and enjoying them!!


Flying with colourful wings!


Born as a bird,

Brought up in a nest,

Fantasized of flying with colorful wings,

Ditched by fate’s trip,

Went through rigid times,

Fallen down as a dried leaf!

Felt warmth by the wings that wrapped around me,

Felt like a queen and shared love,

Deceived by love and torn,

Left alone with shattered pieces of heart,

Learned to live alone and fly on own,

Embraced by another love as a ray of light in a dark room,

Bloomed with hope and flew high,

Trusted and been intimate with the love,

Fantasized about being forever in each other’s arms,

Karma, been the bitch and separated us,

Perished mentally, deceived, cried, loved, broken and left solely!

Fallen to the ground and sobbed silently,

Waited for the time to heal everything,

Gained all the strength, heaved my wings to glide along,

Failed first, teased by the life’s trick, fallen down all the time,

Tried and tired,

Congregated all the strength, tried again and again,

Gained all the courage and flying high in the sky to defeat my loneliness, my defeats, my fate, my scares, my shattered pieces of heart, my frails and my worries!


Choatic Thoughts

Well!I have a friend who once was betrayed, trenched deep by her love! She was deeply hurt and mentally disturbed! I didn’t enclose her situation to her family because ,i couldn’t imagine how they will take this. We both used to stay together in a single room and i used to be beside her and motivated her to be brave and strong. She was one of the strongest and brave girls i have seen,but her braveness got faded gradually. She once thought of committing suicide in my absence,but somehow she failed and survived!

This was happened four years ago and now she is a successful software engineer, a passionate wife and mother of a kiddo! Suicide and losing is not her thing ,but it was her state of mind in which she was.Her mind was in choatic state and filled with evil thoughts.Pessimist in her made her to go till that stage! She then later understood what she really needs and what is the main thing of life and concentrated on her career. She has grown gradually and now she is a successful person.

She was choatic; life seemed to be mess, she loved herself and loved her life and grown each day as an adventure. My advice to everyone after seeing her life is to be bold and strong at the worst path even.Never take instant and evil decisions when you are in a confused state because who knows there might be a beautiful life wrirten for you!


Black bag!

I really don’t know how many women will like this post and some might judge me even,but i don’t give a f**k!.So today i went to a general grocery shop which is not so big , but enough to buy groceries,so i asked the shopkeeper for sanitary napkins(which means pads in general use).  A middle aged woman who was standing beside me felt shy and started to seeing away as if she is unaware if the menstrual cycle and period!I gave an irritated  and dirty look to her.So this shopkeeper wrapped the packet in the newspaper and said “there is no black colour carry bag,is it okay if i give in transparent carry bag”. I was little bit irritated and surprised by his question and said “Bhayya!there is nothing to hide it,it is the same way as the men use shaving cream ,we use sanitary napkins, everyone are aware of everything and no need of wrapping in newspaper even, just give it in transparent carry bag”.  I sensed the surprise on shopkeeper’s face and he gave me the carry bag!

This wont happens only with him and only here,but i have seen even girls feeling shy to ask for sanitary napkins, I’m really not aware of the reason why? Is it something to be hidden? Or is it something bad? it’s part of human body and biological thing that happens with every girl!if it’s really bad and if it’s a mistake to speak about the women’s period , then why many companies elicit about this and advertise? This is really not to hurt someone ,but i just want to educate or explain or whatever people think. Sanitary napkins are just part in our groceries list of every month. Even this post is for men to support their female ones that period is not wrong and one shouldn’t feel shy to ask for a sanitary napkin!


Don’t be Ostentatious!

“Empty vessels make much noise”.This is so true as per my knowledge because i have seen people being ostentatious for some or other purpose.People who are really wealthy by mind don’t show off things or make much gaudy show. Real maturity is accepting what we have and respecting the people who doesn’t have what we have and helping them to grow! 

 People should have more than what they show and speak less than what they know!when people speak ,at the end of the speech should not  be ostentatious way,but to be clearly understood by others. How much we grow we should never forget the routes and our feet should always touch the ground.


Be as a Queen👑

In every girl there is a queen who is capable of handling the shit happening in life!i never wish to be my dad’s little princess instead i always wish to be a spinster queen who protects my dad’s kingdom as a warrior untill i get married and untill my own king arrives!

“Don’t be a Queen waiting for a king, be a queen busy with her kingdom till the King arrives”.

If you can’t be as a warrior ,then be as a queen who can atleast advice her king! it’s the most effective way to live as a warrior . A warrior may worry and think before making any decision ,but once he/she  makes it ,they go in their own way. Free from worries or thoughts;there will be million other decisions still awaiting him. That’s the warriors way! Be like that.

Even after getting married there is nothing wrong to be as a married queen who is a half part of the king because a king is nothing without a queen and every man needs a queen in his life when it’s mess ,because just like in a game of chess,queen protects the king! 

“A queen on her throne is a woman who has mattered heself.She is not perfect ,but she is complete. She has come to the full realization that everything she needs to fulfill her mission can be found within. She is uncovered her powers and she knows how to use them.She will never go along the path ,she will always become the path!”

Every man likes his woman to be protective and conquer on her own with or without his existence. A warrior queen brings stability to king’s life.She doesn’t creates problems, she solves them. She doesn’t seduce him with her body;she simulates with her mind.She shines light into her darkness,She doesn’t settle;she inspires growth.She doesn’t fit in with the rest;she stands out.

Being as a queen doesn’t mean as being mercyless. Every girl should be as a warrior in when life is mess and should be able to clear all the mess with her own swords!!


Second thoughts

Do you think second thoughts and second chances are genuine than first’s? Whatever it is first is always first and second thoughts and second chances are always second though you have found the second thoughts as a right one! When you have second thoughts about something and when our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all,they are Just unnecessary feelings that are stopping you from doing the particular work!

When you think the situation is right and what you are doing is right ,no matter what people say , just go for it.Dont have any other second thought of it! At some cases having second thought is always fine. If someone betrays you ,giving you second chance is not always fine because once a cheater,always they will be the same,so before giving them second chances have second thought and act according to your heart and mind!

Once in a while you start having second thoughts, just recapture everything once that is flickering in your mind and think “is this second thought really necessary?!”then you will have the right decision regarding going with the second thought or continuing for second!Some people often say that second thoughts are always best ,so they might be matters of judgment ,but not in matters of conscience!